It’s been a hell of a year.
In November of 2022 Russ and I rushed home from Colorado because Joy the Puppy had fallen and hurt her shoulder badly, and the kids needed help caring for her. We thought it was the beginning of the end for Joy. We mourned. She recovered.
New Year’s Day 2023 Blue was admitted to UNMC with a ruptured esophagus secondary to vomiting. They spent four days in the ICU. My previous boss (I know you hate to hear it but…thank you) and Russ’s boss :) let us be off work so we could stay with Blue. We were shaken to the core and so sad to see them so sick. We are so very grateful that they made a full recovery.
April 2023 I felt a little bit tired. Then I nosedived.
After three months of being off work and mostly in bed - much of it at Mom and Dad’s house - and after life saving surgery, I recovered fully. I am so grateful to all of you for walking me through such a scary and difficult time.
Abby has had a rough year too. And has a great guy. And a super cute kitten. Things are better.
I had to say goodbye to work friends and clients I love and start over. I miss them terribly.
I love my new job and teammates so much.
We got two live potted Christmas trees this year that were as beautiful as The Purple Flocked Christmas Trees of Christmases Past. Then one died two days in! Well that’s fun, as they say. The last tree standing is tiny and perfect.
Periwinkle Pug had to have surgery. Doug has gotten all the pretend aftercare that Periwinkle has gotten In Real Life. He takes fear of missing out to a whole new level!
We took out his pretend sutures recently. He did great! Periwinkle too.
Come to think of it, Doug has kinda skated through this year unscathed, as he tends to do. He did get bitten at his very own birthday party at Omaha Dog Bar this past fall. He was having too much fun to notice. If you asked him about the other guy, he would absolutely say they are best friends. That’s what he says about everybody! That party was one of my favorite days with some of my favorite people. Doug agrees. That’s also what he says about every day.
Russ and I went to KC with our friends Cindy and Tae Choi and got to see Amy Grant and Michael W. Smith and Michael Tate (surprise guest!) in concert! I cried the whole time. It’s been a hell of a year. They were happy tears though. Those songs bring up good memories. Of college and meeting Russ and…Christmas…which I suppose was the actual goal of the concert tour. Still. Such a great night. One of my favorite trips with some of our very favorite people.
Last night Periwinkle (who has what we suspect to be idiopathic epilepsy with seizures that are usually few and far between) had two seizures. She doesn’t know - please do not tell her! She is resting under the tree now, as beautiful and content as ever.
We do not have a damn thing wrapped. As I was finishing writing this, Russ broke his favorite Golden Retriever mug and spilled coffee on his feet. (Wet feet are the WORST!) I had to erase “Today is a good day - we have coffee” to write that!
Truly though, today is so good. My brother Bill and his family arrive from Ohio TODAY. My brother Dave is spending his first full day in his and the kids’ new apartment TODAY. And starting today, we get to spend most of this next week at Mom and Dad’s home, my favorite place on earth. The whole Table Rock group from this past summer will be there. And also Cara, so, even better!
I hope this past year has been mostly amazing for you.
I hope memories of loved ones bring you more comfort than sorrow.
I hope that if you had to make Scary Life Changes that you landed so well. I hope that you had and have lots of time with family and friends.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.
Thank you for sharing life with us. Love you all so much. May 2024 be our best year yet.